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	<title>Comments on: Lessons Learned from the Formerly Rich and Famous</title>
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		<title>By: lurker carl</title>
		<link>http://toughmoneylove.com/2009/07/08/lessons-learned-formerly-rich-mous/comment-page-1/#comment-4983</link>
		<dc:creator>lurker carl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 03:27:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I used to feel sorry for MJ but he could have easily made some better decisions and choices in his personal life to avoid the trials and tribulations that dogged him during the last decade.  Sometimes the Madonna method of keeping your name on the public&#039;s tongue isn&#039;t the best way of staying in the limelight.  Rosanne can testify to that.

As far as getting trusted advisors go, you usually have to go through a lot of losers to find them.  Rich and famous or poor and obscure, excellent employees are truly hard to come by - most people are better off handing things themselves.  But you can not build an empire by yourself.  Many folks are not able to tell the good folks from the bad until it&#039;s too late.  Best of luck finding a Suze Orman to handle your affairs when you can not do it yourself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used to feel sorry for MJ but he could have easily made some better decisions and choices in his personal life to avoid the trials and tribulations that dogged him during the last decade.  Sometimes the Madonna method of keeping your name on the public&#8217;s tongue isn&#8217;t the best way of staying in the limelight.  Rosanne can testify to that.</p>
<p>As far as getting trusted advisors go, you usually have to go through a lot of losers to find them.  Rich and famous or poor and obscure, excellent employees are truly hard to come by &#8211; most people are better off handing things themselves.  But you can not build an empire by yourself.  Many folks are not able to tell the good folks from the bad until it&#8217;s too late.  Best of luck finding a Suze Orman to handle your affairs when you can not do it yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: Funny about Money</title>
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		<dc:creator>Funny about Money</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 03:03:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>About #4, it&#039;s hard to imagine how a grotesque creature like Jackson could manage a plan B, having started as a kind of child prodigy and focused the totality of his energy and talent on his performance, public &amp; private (which were, after all, the same thing).

The only strategy I can deduce from experience of the rich &amp; the famous is that if you must be rich, try to avoid being famous. ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>About #4, it&#8217;s hard to imagine how a grotesque creature like Jackson could manage a plan B, having started as a kind of child prodigy and focused the totality of his energy and talent on his performance, public &amp; private (which were, after all, the same thing).</p>
<p>The only strategy I can deduce from experience of the rich &amp; the famous is that if you must be rich, try to avoid being famous. <img src='http://toughmoneylove.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Rick Beagle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rick Beagle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 15:52:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am wondering how you folks expected a five year old to develop all of these skills?  If his parents had been better and his talent a lot less, then perhaps he wouldn&#039;t have been in such bad shape.  

Considering my comment, perhaps we should have a number five about family and friends.   It is sad, but when you move into an extreme wealth bracket like MJ did, it is hard to discern love from greed.

MasterPo
    A lot of people have difficulties understanding the difference between hard well earned money, and the absolute worship of it.  The difference between looking at money and seeing something else such as a college education for your children, rather than throwing it onto the floor and rolling around in it.  The difference between taking that money and planting a flower garden, rather than investing it in a company that wants to cut the top of a mountain off (thereby polluting the area for generations).  There are people who understand why they work hard for their money, and then there are those that the sum of them begins and end with their money.

    I used to work with a woman who did not have children and literally gave a great deal of time and money to our local schools.  When asked about it, she responded rather flippantly to me: &quot;I figure (she says) that every child I help is one less child likely to grow up and mug me.&quot;  While humorous, the comment belies an important tenet of the Liberal thought process.  If you invest, and make opportunities for people, they will rise to the challenge (not all, but most) and at the end of the day, they will provide far more to our community (taxes, community service, etc.) than our original investment.  Conservatives see one dead beat and declare the whole investment process a sham (designed to separate their beloved money from their wallet), and then go back to their homes to count their many coins all the while crying about the state of the world they helped create.

Peace.
Rick Beagle</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am wondering how you folks expected a five year old to develop all of these skills?  If his parents had been better and his talent a lot less, then perhaps he wouldn&#8217;t have been in such bad shape.  </p>
<p>Considering my comment, perhaps we should have a number five about family and friends.   It is sad, but when you move into an extreme wealth bracket like MJ did, it is hard to discern love from greed.</p>
<p>MasterPo<br />
    A lot of people have difficulties understanding the difference between hard well earned money, and the absolute worship of it.  The difference between looking at money and seeing something else such as a college education for your children, rather than throwing it onto the floor and rolling around in it.  The difference between taking that money and planting a flower garden, rather than investing it in a company that wants to cut the top of a mountain off (thereby polluting the area for generations).  There are people who understand why they work hard for their money, and then there are those that the sum of them begins and end with their money.</p>
<p>    I used to work with a woman who did not have children and literally gave a great deal of time and money to our local schools.  When asked about it, she responded rather flippantly to me: &#8220;I figure (she says) that every child I help is one less child likely to grow up and mug me.&#8221;  While humorous, the comment belies an important tenet of the Liberal thought process.  If you invest, and make opportunities for people, they will rise to the challenge (not all, but most) and at the end of the day, they will provide far more to our community (taxes, community service, etc.) than our original investment.  Conservatives see one dead beat and declare the whole investment process a sham (designed to separate their beloved money from their wallet), and then go back to their homes to count their many coins all the while crying about the state of the world they helped create.</p>
<p>Peace.<br />
Rick Beagle</p>
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		<title>By: MasterPo</title>
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		<dc:creator>MasterPo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 02:35:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Regarding #3 it&#039;s the same with sports figures in that these are usually little more than kids when they get million dollar deals. They never learned how to manage money or the pain of working hard for what you have and wanting to keep ti (you hear that Rick and SJ!).

I liken it to the stories of people who win multi-millions in the lottery. A huge number of them are dead broke again with in a year or so.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Regarding #3 it&#8217;s the same with sports figures in that these are usually little more than kids when they get million dollar deals. They never learned how to manage money or the pain of working hard for what you have and wanting to keep ti (you hear that Rick and SJ!).</p>
<p>I liken it to the stories of people who win multi-millions in the lottery. A huge number of them are dead broke again with in a year or so.</p>
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		<title>By: My Journey</title>
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		<dc:creator>My Journey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 14:35:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I would also add, 

#5)  Just because you can sing, dance, play football does not mean you know what you are doing when it comes to investments - get a trusted advisor BUT MAKE SURE HE OR SHE CAN BE TRUSTED.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would also add, </p>
<p>#5)  Just because you can sing, dance, play football does not mean you know what you are doing when it comes to investments &#8211; get a trusted advisor BUT MAKE SURE HE OR SHE CAN BE TRUSTED.</p>
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		<title>By: sekishin</title>
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		<dc:creator>sekishin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 13:43:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Regarding #2 above: I can only imagine how Michael Jackson felt about himself prior to his fame (at an early age) and how very sad he must have felt when alone (lonely is different) with himself. Without all the objects he purchased and absent of the adoring millions of fans cheering him, I can only assume it was unbearable to be . . .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Regarding #2 above: I can only imagine how Michael Jackson felt about himself prior to his fame (at an early age) and how very sad he must have felt when alone (lonely is different) with himself. Without all the objects he purchased and absent of the adoring millions of fans cheering him, I can only assume it was unbearable to be . . .</p>
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