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	<title>Comments on: A Tough Love Treatment Plan for Money Envy</title>
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		<title>By: MoneyGrubbingLawyer</title>
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		<description>This post couldn&#039;t have been more timely for me. I&#039;ve spent the last little while with friends who have just moved back and bought a beautiful house, a nice car, and a TV that makes mine look like a piece of crap. Envy was fully in season for me. 

As you point out, I have no idea what their underlying financial situation is- I assume it&#039;s pretty good, but I really don&#039;t know for sure. But my reasons for wanting all their great stuff really have very little to do with need or utility, it&#039;s all about appearances. Heck, I&#039;m colour blind- what do I need a high def, crystal clear true life colour TV for?? The only answer is to feel like I&#039;m successful and impress those around me. And that&#039;s a pretty bad reason. 

I&#039;m working on Steps 3 and 4, and I&#039;ve noticed a big difference in my envy level since I  started consciously thinking about these issues. I&#039;m assuming that it&#039;s a lifelong struggle, though- I don&#039;t expect to someday mgically be relieved of all envy and desire and decide to go live out my days as a Buddhist monk. Then again, who knows?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post couldn&#8217;t have been more timely for me. I&#8217;ve spent the last little while with friends who have just moved back and bought a beautiful house, a nice car, and a TV that makes mine look like a piece of crap. Envy was fully in season for me. </p>
<p>As you point out, I have no idea what their underlying financial situation is- I assume it&#8217;s pretty good, but I really don&#8217;t know for sure. But my reasons for wanting all their great stuff really have very little to do with need or utility, it&#8217;s all about appearances. Heck, I&#8217;m colour blind- what do I need a high def, crystal clear true life colour TV for?? The only answer is to feel like I&#8217;m successful and impress those around me. And that&#8217;s a pretty bad reason. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m working on Steps 3 and 4, and I&#8217;ve noticed a big difference in my envy level since I  started consciously thinking about these issues. I&#8217;m assuming that it&#8217;s a lifelong struggle, though- I don&#8217;t expect to someday mgically be relieved of all envy and desire and decide to go live out my days as a Buddhist monk. Then again, who knows?</p>
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